We are navigating the lure of pornography, the message of “Friends with Benefits,” the routine of married sex, the culture of adultery, the preoccupation with lust, and the basic inability of men and women to understand each other.
It’s crucial to see fidelity as more than a stop sign, but a green light. After turning away from the other woman, strip club, or porn, cheaters often don’t turn toward the spouse. “I’ve stopped doing anything, so I’m faithful.” But complete fidelity means you have an ongoing captivation with your spouse. “May you ever be captivated by her love,” Proverbs 5:19.